When we speak about Gender-Based Violence (GBV), most people believe it is only about physical abuse or shouting. However, the world has evolved, and we are now in the age of technology. In this present age, people’s lives are being destroyed without them being touched or physically harmed.

Careers, futures, and reputations have been ruined just with the smartphones and internet in our possession. Many people are being monitored and bullied online; this kind of abuse has led some to deep depression and even untimely death. This is what we call Technology-Facilitated Abuse.

This type of abuse is silent but very fast to harm the victim. Let’s look at the different forms it takes:

1. Cyberbullying (Online Shaming)

This simply means using the internet to harass, threaten, bully, or make fun of someone. Oftentimes, we see people storm the comment section of an individual to threaten their safety or call them names. This might be because of the person’s lifestyle, opinion, tribe, or religion. While this might look like a “joke” to some, it causes severe depression and fear in the victim.

2. Doxing (Exposing Private Info)

Doxing happens when someone publishes your private information on blogs or social media without your consent. This information could be your phone number, home address, work address, or even where your children go to school. These things are done to make the victim unsafe, making them an easy target for physical attack or kidnapping.

3. Sextortion (Nudes and Blackmail)

This form of abuse often starts within a friendship or relationship. The target—mostly women—is tricked into sending private photos or videos. These files are later used as a tool to extort money or force the victim to continue an unwanted sexual relationship. Many victims are unable to speak out due to the fear of the “shame” that follows if the photos are leaked.

How to Protect Yourself

• Always secure your privacy: Do not post your house address, children’s school details, or car plate number on social media.

• Be careful with private photos: No matter how much you trust a partner, remember that the internet never forgets. Once a photo is sent, you lose control over where it goes.

• Keep records of threats: If someone is threatening you online, do not just delete the messages. Take screenshots immediately as evidence for the police.

• Report to Authorities: In Nigeria, the Cybercrimes Act protects you. You can report these cases to the police or the relevant authorities.

Abuse is abuse, whether it happens in a room or on a screen. Your digital safety is your right. Don’t let anyone use your phone to hold you hostage.

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